S3E3: Black SMCs Raising Boys and Embracing Gender Differences  

In this episode, Toja and Toni Jackson, proud mothers of twins, share their diverse experiences in raising boys—from addressing gender anxiety to handling potty training, and from experiencing the unique dynamics of barbershops to dealing with the ongoing conversations around race in a post-George Floyd era. They discuss the importance of male role models, instilling self-esteem in their children, and the joys and challenges of motherhood. Join us for this heartfelt conversation and get inspired by their advice for new moms. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join the mailing list to stay updated!

00:00 Introduction and Meet the Moms

00:31 Gender Anxiety and Expectations

04:18 Potty Training Challenges and Tips

09:00 Navigating Public Restrooms

14:49 Barbershop Experiences

18:18 Importance of Male Role Models

23:13 Post George Floyd Era and Discipline

29:51 Final Thoughts and Advice for New Moms